Monday, December 15, 2008

We're Making Progress

Hello all. Dad has had a few productive days since my last post. He began physical therapy last week and that has made a world of difference for him. As you may be aware, radiation and chemotherapy is quite tough on the body and dad is literally having to relearn how to do some fairly simple things (walking, center of balance, etc.). However, the PT is moving him along to the point that Dr. O noted in her visit this morning that she's quite pleased with his progress and she is ready to move him to the next step-- releasing him from the hospital and into a rehabilitation center. At a rehab center, he will continue with PT and will learn to care for himself once again. We don't know when the move will be made, but she was putting a case worker with the hospital on the hunt for finding an open spot and getting him there as soon as possible. This is a wonderful praise!

I visited tonight with Mom and Dad and I was amazed at his progress during the past few days. When I arrived after work, he was sitting up in bed and about to begin eating dinner. We were able to talk a good bit. Unfortunately, he had a headache coming on and it took some time to get the pain medication in place because his IV had come out. It took a while for the IV team to get to the room and then locate another place for the IV, so by the time all of that had taken place, his headache had gotten rather strong and it was taking some time to calm him down. However, by the time I headed out for the night, he was finally starting to relax with the help of some music in his tiny iPod.

Mom has had a rough couple of days as the stress of the past week or so has taken a toll on her. She had to head for home on Sunday morning and basically stayed home to rest and take care of a slight fever until late this afternoon when she returned to the hospital. However, tonight, she was doing much better (that's what the rest will do for you!) and she was ready to get back into the swing of things.

My sister has done a wonderful job of helping dad through encouraging him, cajoling him when necessary and simply tending to his needs. It has been a real blessing to have her there to help and I know that dad is glad to have her there.

We continue to be amazed at the way in which each of you has cared for us in your own special ways. There simply isn't enough space for me to count all of the things you've done to help us and I know that we can never repay you for the things you've done. However, please know that we cherish the prayers you are lifting up on our behalf and we feel so loved knowing that each of you cares for us.

Dad continues with the radiation and chemo. Today was day 6 of 14 for radiation. He'll keep taking the chemo during the radiation and once the radiation sessions are complete he will go to a cycle of 5 days on and the rest of the month off for the chemo. We aren't sure yet how long that process will go on.

Many of you have asked if it is alright to visit. While we don't want to discourage visiting, we will simply ask that you try to keep the visits brief as dad tires out easily and we need him to build up as much strength as possible so he can take that next step of getting over to the rehab facility. However, please know that we do appreciate seeing your smiling faces and the warm hugs that you bring to the hospital for each of us. As I mentioned, I know that we can never repay you for the love you've shown to each of us.

So, that's the latest. We do ask that you will continue to pray specifically for complete and total healing for dad. Also, please pray that God will strengthen dad to the point that he's able to make the move to the rehab facility and continue the process of building his body strength back to the point that he can take care of himself.

We thank you for all that you've done! Enjoy your day!

3 comments:

  1. Hi Jon...thanks again for this latest update. It's good to know that your Dad is better for the time being. This really can be a roller coaster of sorts...and it is important that all of you (such as your Mom) do get rest. I've been thinking of when my Dad was battling his cancer and how he also tired out easily. Please continue to take care of yourselves and I'm glad that you, your Mom, and your Sister have been there for your Dad. I know he appreciates it. Cherish your moments with him.

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  2. Hi Parks Family...Once again, it's so nice to hear that Norman is making progress. We all pray that he will soon be able to go to rehab and eventually get home. Brenda, I'm so glad you took some time to rest. I know it's difficult to leave Norman, but sometimes you just have to refuel. Jon and Cassie, I know you have made your parents proud because of the way you have handled this situation. You are a blessing to Norman and Brenda. Our prayers remain with you. Roger and Donna Langley

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  3. Jon:

    Always nice to hear good news. It sounds like with all of the immediate support and love from all of you there, thrown in with the long-distance prayers of everyone else, your Dad has no choice but to get better.
    Thanks again for the updates.

    Jim and Terry

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