Tuesday, December 9, 2008

Tuesday Evening Status Report

Hello all. I'm here in Dad's room tonight as I write this post. Dad started radiation yesterday afternoon and it continued today. In all, there will be 14 treatments. Each session takes about 20-25 minutes. Yesterday was a little tough as dad was pretty much unresponsive due to the pain medication he was on. He didn't eat much of anything yesterday because he couldn't be woken up long enough nor could he swallow anything. As a result the doctor was not able to administer the chemo since it is done in pill form. Obviously, that was a little concerning. In fact, mom shared with me today that she knows God was here in the room with them last night. She asked God to help dad breathe and respond so that he could swallow, which would allow him to take his dilantin pill (anti-seizure medication) before they had to move to another, less desirable option. And soon thereafter, for the first time that day, dad began coughing and the nurse was provided an opportunity to get the pill into him. Thank you God for an answer to a prayer!

Today has been a little better. The nurse dad had today noticed the difficult response to the pain medication and took it to the doctor with a suggestion that they change to morphine. Well, sure enough, the pain medication he was taking was much stronger than the morphine, and perhaps more than what he actually needed. So, they changed him to the morphine and he's been awake much more today.

As for the radiation, he seems to be doing well thus far: 2 sessions down; 12 to go. The doctor was able to begin the chemo tonight, so that is now underway. The plan is to take that for 5 days and take off for the rest of the month.

So, that's where things stand for now. I want to thank each of you that have written in with comments. They are uplifting to all of us and it means so much to have your support. I do want to ask for some specific prayer requests:

1. Comfort for dad. The combination of the radiation, chemo and the various medications is rather taxing on his body. We need you to ask God to comfort dad by putting him in the palm of His hands and letting dad know that He is there.
2. Strength for mom and all of us. As I've said before, this is easily the hardest thing that any of us has ever experienced. Ask God to allow us to lean on Him and ask Him to continue to be our rock and source of strength.
3. Continue to pray for a miracle of healing. We continue to know that God is in control and He uses all things for His glory. As comforting as that is, it still kind of hurts in the quite moments.

Thank you again for your support of our entire family. We continue to be amazed and in awe of seeing just how many people love and care for our family. So, thank you. I don't know that we can ever say that enough.

ps-- I'm sitting here with dad right now and he wants me to tell each of you:
"Thank you for everything you've done for me and my family. I love each of you and you will never know how much your support means to me."

Good night all.

11 comments:

  1. Hi Jon...thanks for the continued updates on your Dad.

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  2. Jon:

    Thank you, again, for the latest update. It sounds like some of the little miracles are working - that's encouraging. We're offering all of our prayers for your Dad, your Mom, you, and all of the family that they continue.
    Jim and Terry

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  3. Jon,
    I know how you feel, I have been right where you are, and you are right, in the quiet moments, it does hurt, and what I didn't think about at the time, was that God was hurting with me and my family, just like he is with you and yours. You can lean on Him, and he is there with you, all the time, loving you and asking you to trust Him. My prayers and love are with you and your family.
    Peggy Johnson

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  4. Parks Family,

    Our prayers are with all of you during this difficult time. We also pray that God will guide and give wisdom to the medical team treating Norman.

    Charlie and Gail

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  5. You all are in our thoughts and prayers. We are thankful that today is a better day.
    Barbara and Buck

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  6. Hi Parks family. I just find myself thinking of all of you all the time. I want so much to do something for you. I guess I would even do windows if that is what you need!!!
    God is good and God loves Norman and he will do what is best for him. But in the meantime I guess is doesn't hurt if we provide a few suggestions along the way. Take care, I am a phone call away. Love, Sue

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  7. Jon, please know that my thoughts and prayers are with your family throughout each day. Tell your mom and dad that I love them. In this valley of life, always look up and never lose sight of HOPE.

    Janice Johnson

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  8. Jim and I were so sorry to hear of the latest turn of events, but we know that God is good all the time and have all assurance that He holds Norman and all of you in the palm of His mighty hand. What a wonderful place to be!! Our prayers continue to be with you. Blessings!! Jim & Norma Reynolds

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  9. Brenda, Norman, and Family:
    I think about you constantly throughout the day. My prayers for you are that God will put His comforting arms around you and give your strength, guidance, and relief at this difficult time. Please let me know if I can help you in anyway. I would love to bring you a home cooked meal, a good book, or a comfy blanket from home to snuggle under. I know you are growing weary of the hospital room. Please don't hesitate to let me know what I can do for you there or at home. We love you bunches, Aaron and Laurie

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  10. Hi Parks Family:

    It is now Wednesday night and the two of us are sitting here at our home thinking about all of you. The one thing that we know we can do is to pray for all of you. You can be sure that we are having a daily prayer for you. We can also be assured that God is right there with you every step of the way and listening to all of the prayers being sent by so many who care about you.

    We thank you so very much for keeping us posted.

    Your Edgebrook neighbors,

    Dan & Joyce

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  11. Hi Jon. You and your family continue to be in my thoughts and prayers. Your faith only gets stronger in those "quite" moments you referenced. So hang on...
    Much love to you...Meg Spivey

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