Hello all. I've just returned a short while ago from spending the evening with mom and dad. Dad has been having some up and down days recently as he's struggling with some of the physical and cognitive issues, but overall, he was in good spirits tonight. He really perked up when I showed him a photo I took this past Saturday of the progress at Kidd Brewer Stadium-- the football stadium at Appalachian State-- as he told me that he intends to get strong enough to be able to go to a home game with me this fall. I told him that if he's feeling up to it, then I would gladly make it happen.
On the drive home tonight, I really felt convicted to ask for two things, so I'd like to share them with you in this post. As I drove along, I realized that many people are not aware that the person and the family members affected by cancer often feel quite lonely. It's not that no one cares for them (we certainly understand that!), but because you cannot get out and about, you often feel as though you've lost your connection to everyone. So, with that in mind, I have a special request of each of you. I would like to ask each of you to send Mom and Dad a quick note and a photo of yourself to let them both know that you are standing with them in this fight. I have visions of filling up their house with photos of the people who love and care for them along with brief encouraging notes so that they both will know that, while they may not be able to get out to see you, you are able to come into their house and stand with them during this fight. Would you mind doing that for Mom and Dad? It doesn't have to be elaborate-- just a simple snapshot photo of you and your family would greatly be appreciated. Here's there home address:
Norman & Brenda Parks
1412 Edgebrook Drive
Garner, NC 27529
Also, could I impose upon you to forward this to as many people that you may know? I've heard from several people who don't really know mom and dad that well, yet they've been touched in some way by their story and it is my hope that this is another way to spread that story.
The second request I have is mainly for those of you who live in the Garner (and surrounding) areas. It would really brighten mom and dad's days if you could arrange for a brief visit. The key is to simply call before going over and mom will let you know if it is a good time or not. They may not always be up to receiving visitors, but they will let you know of another time that may work if that's the case. I know it would bring a little sunshine for you to simply visit for a while and catch up.
I appreciate you indulging my requests. We appreciate your prayers and continued support. Dad does have a doctor's appointment on Tuesday morning with Dr. O. I'll write more tomorrow after that visit.
As always, many thanks to each of you!
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Norman - please know that you and your family are in my prayers, and may God grant you the peace that passes all understanding. Hang in there!
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You are quite correct, Jon, in observing how illness, especially serious illness, tends to isolate both the patient and his or her family. This is one of many ways in which an illness changes the whole person, not just his or her body, but both his mind and spirit and sense of being, and similarly affects everyone who has a close relationship with that person.
ReplyDeleteThank you again for sharing with us a way in which we can support you all. Your posts have always been very reflectful and helpful, and we are grateful for what you continue to do. You are a true and faithful son!
Our prayer is that many people will respond to these suggestions. And our promise is that we will too!
Grace and peace to you, my friend,
with HIS love,
Harvey and Linda
I'm glad for the update. I pray faithfully for healing(of body and soul), peace, and for you all to feel the love that is being sent your way.
ReplyDeleteIt was so good to see Brenda yesterday! Thanks again for the opportunity to be included in your family's situation. We are all praying for you!
Monsie and Donnie Gillis
I went through the digital pictures today and found some great ones of Norman and Brenda's ASPE friends from the 2004 and 2006 convention. I will have the prints tomorrow and put them in the mail. Hopefully they will enjoy them as much as I did, remembering great times and great friends. Our thoughts and prayers are always with you. Take care!
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Hey, Guys!
ReplyDeleteJust wanted you to know I'm praying for you and thinking about you. I've also been reflecting on days gone by, and wanted to say how much I appreciate all the time you spent with me when I was a youngster. There was always laughter and smiles, and that meant so much then, but it means even more now. May God comfort each of you and bring you peace beyond all understanding. God is good ALL THE TIME! Love from Texas, Paula Brooks
Norm, I was shocked to hear about your health problems. I wish you peace through your ordeals and hope to see you once again at an ASPE national function. Tom Taylor, Pittsburgh ASPE chatper
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