Tuesday, April 28, 2009

A Tough Day with Tough News

Hello all. The past several days have been tough for dad and all of us. Last week, mom and dad were out getting some lunch when dad pretty much lost all of his strength while getting out of the car and he had a bad fall in the parking lot. The fall shook him up a bit and mom decided to call Dr. O's office to see if they needed to do anything. Dr. O went ahead and bumped up dad's scheduled CT scan (originally scheduled for May 6) to last Thursday and they added in an MRI. So, dad had both done on Thursday. Well, we got the results today in an appointment with Dr. O. It appears that the latest round of chemo has not been having much affect at all on the existing cancerous spots (save some reduced swelling around the areas on his brain). Unfortunately, this isn't the worst of the news. There are at least 2 more cancerous spots on his brain now. One is on the left side and another is on the right side of the cerebellum. Dr. O noted that the spot on the cerebellum could be what is causing him to fall (he had another fall yesterday as well). Additionally, the cancer has continue to spread in his abdomen. Dr. O mentioned that there are "several" new spots on his spleen and his kidneys in addition to what was already there. Dr. O presented a treatment option of one final type of chemo to be taken in conjunction with Temodar. This is pretty much the last form of chemo available for dad to use. The chemo treatment will begin soon, but it had to wait for dad to get a blood transfusion this afternoon as his blood counts were quite low. The blood transfusion was successful and by late afternoon, mom and dad were on their way home for dad to get some much needed rest.

Friends, I wish I had better news. Unfortunately, I do not. While dad is still battling bravely, he's tired a lot more often than he used to be. He's also scarred as he realizes that this is a battle that he's probably not going to win. That's very hard for me to type. At this point, dad is fighting to get as many days as he possibly can.

I'm not really sure what is the "appropriate" thing to say right now. I simply ask that you will lift dad and our entire family up in prayer asking that God will provide comfort and guidance to use in the days ahead. Thank you for your continued support.

8 comments:

  1. Hi Jon,

    I am so sorry to know of the latest update about your Dad. Thanks for keeping the strength during this trying time for you and your family. From experience with my Dad just a few years ago, I can say that it is very challenging and it is hard to know what to say.

    I will pray for God to comfort and guide each of you in the coming days. I will also pray that God will HEAL your Dad as He sees fit whether on Earth or in Heaven.

    In Him,
    Greg

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  2. Jon,

    I will continue to keep your family in my thoughts and prayers. These are very difficult times but stay strong.

    Mitch

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  3. Harvey and Linda ClaytonApril 29, 2009 at 5:11 AM

    Linda and I are very saddened to hear this news. Norman has been very strong and very brave to endure all these treatments, and you have been very faithful in keeping us informed. Cassie has played a very valuable role in in coordinating medical arrangements and supporting both your parents. This has truly been a family effort, and you and your family have been, and continue to be, surrounded by "a great cloud of witnesses" (Heb. 12:1)of folks who love you all and pray for you all regularly. And that love and support will not go away.
    God promises us that there is nothing we can do to escape His love and care for us, regardless of our personal circumstances (Psalm 139), and there is NOTHING in all creation that can separate us from His love in Christ Jesus (Rom. 8:26-39).
    May all of you find rest and peace in God's love and care for you, and in the love and prayers that are extended to you by all of us.
    with HIS love,
    Harvey and Linda

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  4. Jon,

    Norman and the family are in our prayers. May God give you grace and peace through this difficult time.

    John T. Harris
    (a TWC employee and friend)

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  5. Our heartfelt prayers are with you all.
    Love, Lynn and Brenda Pearce

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  6. My prayers are with you and your family. I'll also pray that he'll give your dad a miracle wtih this new type of chemo.

    Shannon Colby

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  7. Jon,

    As always, we will keep Norman, Brenda, and your entire family in our prayers during these difficult days.

    Dusty & Jan Wall

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  8. Thank you so much for keeping us updated. Norman, Brenda, and your entire family are in our prayers every day. I pray that God will give you extra strength to get through these difficult days.
    Kathy, Eric and Craig Sykes

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